Melbcat has been seen by the specialist. As an alternative to further hospital stays she’s home now on daily subcutaneous fluids, pain and nausea relief, and antibiotics. The idea is to support her body and keep retesting her values at least every three days while trying to let the acute kidney injury recover. 🤞If she worsens she will have to go back into hospital.
I’ll also try to encourage her to drink broth, offer those pouches of soup style meal toppers, and get some electrolytes from the pet shop.
gentle hugs
rest rest rest
let the body do it’s stuff
🖤
Sounds like you have your hands full, but they are the best hands for her.
I would much rather have kept her admitted and on iv fluids but the costs of that could get out of control very quickly. And she will need further care.
At least this way she has more familiar surroundings and her own bed…
the comfort of one’s own home is itself good care
hospitals can be very stressful even if only because it’s different and new
if you can get the care you need at home it’s a good idea
so many gentle hugs
we are here if you need to chat 😘
I completely understand the cost concerns. And I’m sure she is getting the very best of care from you. ❤️
Juice from a tin of tuna in spring water is very much a fave of the puss puss. We used to do liquid for punky, tuna for my jaffle.
Good idea, she did like tuna juice so I’ll get more mini tins.
I’ve moved a small container of frozen broth into the fridge to thaw and am trying to clean the disaster area of my kitchen to hopefully cook more once I’ve had a bit of sleep.
I have arranged alternate leave, very slightly later. This is acceptable to me. I would have LIKED it to include my birthday, but I’ll take a few days off just afterwards
TheVoid caught a mouse. Good Boy!
He is a mighty hunter
Indeed. A majestic garden panther.
yay 🐈⬛🏆
Couch has been chopped up and removed from the house the easiest and, coincidentally, the most satisfying way: chucked through the window! Dining table has been moved to it’s new position and it’s looking great in here! I even put up different curtains (my exMIL bought herself new curtains but couldn’t get them up by herself, so I did that for her and scored the old ones 🙂).
DEFENESTRATE! 🤖
I was Russian to get it done in one morning
Throwing furniture out of the window is cathartic lol
It sure is! My oldest was home and he helped with it as well. It’s certainly not something you get to do every day and I think he really enjoyed himself 😂
Has anyone heard from Melbtown and Melbcat?
No but I just came here to check. If you are listening Melbs family we are thinking of you
Thanks
Hi - because of hospital stay costs Melbcat has been allowed to come home with supportive care and monitoring to see if her kidneys recover. 🤞 If she worsens she’ll have to go back into hospital
One of the black kittens let me pick them up.
Feels good lol
😻😻😻
So just how many are you keeping? 😹
It’s a real struggle lol
aww 🐈⬛
The worst thing about changing your diet for the better is when you decide to treat yourself like you used to and your guts decide you’ve been poisoned and must remove all the offending foodstuff asap. 😢
It feels like betrayal.
“why body?!?! I’ve been so good to you, just let me have this one!!!”
Had to visit Camberwell for a meeting today, not a suburb of Melbourne I’ve ever visited. Such a contrast to my west side hood, in the types of people walking around, the much nicer houses and buildings. Their office was very flashy. Felt like the person from the ghetto seeing how the other side lives.
The leafy green burbs in the east are definitely something else compared to the west.
With that in mind, feel free to rob people. They’re scared of us from the other side of the bridge.
Just plant more yuccas, bit of synthetic grass, few footy gnomes it’s not all bad out west.
I’m gearing up to get rid of the yucca in my garden. Bastard is like 2.5 metres tall.
Gonna take some doing but we’ll get there.
Good luck, I did some reading about that and it’s a tough job. Eye (and even ear) protection advised, apparently their pointy leaves have been known to both blind and deafen people by poking into places they do not belong.
Do you have a stump treatment/removal plan to stop regrowth?
Have my gardening goggles!!! For ears I should be okay. Going to cut the branches off and then trim them at ground level.
For the stumps, I have some poison ready. Hate using it, but not going to pay for a stump grinder.
2.5 metres tall
hrmm… I would offer to help but i won’t.
Mine are even worse. Have scared off multiple arborists.
I think the yuccas are a bit old fashioned now, it’s all synthetic grass and badly laid rock ‘mulch’ with bits of plastic liner showing through. Both options are also riddled with overgrown weeds.
I’ll have you know I own zero football gnomes. The rest however…
Used to live in camberwell near the junction many moons ago as a 20 something.
It was sort of souless but there was an awesome chicken place at the end of the street that arrested many a hangover.
the west and north never used to be so ghetto and run down, it’s so heartbreaking to see
I think the loss of rates revenue from the now closed manufacturing and defence facilities has left these councils poor
pokies and gambling has not helped communities either
If I were in the council I’d be applying for every grant, state and federal, that I could
and would do my best to drive out pokies
nothing will stop the centuries old prejudices but standards of living can be raised and opportunities nurtured
Our historical landmark is pacific Werribee lol
Eeeeeek I walked through a spiders web, right across my face! Mad swiping of face and hair ensued, hoping spider wasn’t present.
yay, I bought a new controller so I can play computer games 👍🎮33
Oooh, so fun!! I’ve been really enjoying playing computer games with a controller. E33 converted me, until then I was a strictly mouse and keyboard person.
the writers of the game said to use a controller so here I am 🙂
Got the day off so I’m doing something drastic: throwing out my couch! It’s threadbare and disgusting and I’m sick of covering it with throws to try to make it look ok. It’s time to get it out of the lounge room. I also want to move the dining table to the space it currently occupies. ExMrP wants to help… I’d kind of like to do it myself but fine I guess. I threw out the last lounge suite we had on my own and this is smaller. I’ll see how I go!
I do 99% of stuff here on my own, that way it gets done
Heading home from work, my bowels are UNHAPPY
I’d like to give my gratitude to my sympathetic nervous system and the crimson tide for the opportunity to look like a sick fuck at work ✌️💜
I finished all seasons of The Boulet Brothers Dragula that I can access via Shudder (seasons 4-6, and Titans 1 and 2). Gonna rewatch Titans 2, and then investigate how to “obtain” seasons 1-3 and Resurrection lol
I NEED MY HORROR DRAG QUEENS AND KINGS
Edit: no one cares, but Asia Consent’s Terrifier drag act (S6) was so fucking filthy, it’s hands down my fav look EVER
Perfecto!
Cheers :)
Will need to make a free account. Your ISP might have blocked them because bla bla bla some bullshit about piracy.
If so, change the primary dns on your network adapter to 8.8.8.8
And secondary dns to 8.8.4.4
Bless 🙌 thank you!
Enjoy. This place usually has everything. Just throw an auto translate addon to your browser and you’re set
So when you right click the network adapter and click properties, there’s a list that comes up.
You want to edit the one called IPV4
Apologies if you already know this.
I put in for, like, three days of leave. I did this a month out. I want the leave in late March.
Apparently the answer is still no. How damn early do I have to do it for it to be a yes?
That’s bullshit. An employer can only refuse an employee’s request for annual leave if the refusal is reasonable. What’s their reason?
That there’s no leave available. Too many other people want it.
But like…why is a month’s warning not long enough to avoid that?
Stop asking. This is your leave, that you have accrued. It belongs to you. You are advising them of your unavailability.
Respond to them advising you have given them X weeks of notice of your leave. Make them explain why they’re trying to block you
They say too many other people want it around that time. Can’t lose too many at once, see?
But like…why is a month’s warning not long enough to avoid that problem and let me block out three days?
Copy and paste that second sentence into your reply email
This. I don’t ask for leave, I tell. If you haven’t got enough staff that’s your problem, not mine.
Did they give a business reason for saying no? I don’t think you can just deny for whatever reason, especially over and over again, these are your rights to use.
They say that there’s no leave available. Too many other people want it around that time.
But like…why is a month’s warning not long enough to avoid that? How quick off the mark do I need to be?
I can understand that reason being given if you were asking for weeks off, but it sounds like a resourcing issue to me if it’s happened to you over and over. You can’t be expected to know when you need a few days of leave several months in advance.
100% a staffing issue. We’re chronically stretched
It’s become an issue since they changed up the leave booking system too, It used to be reviewed by a person, now it’s automated…and the leave-bot says no to things
Automating leave requests is ridiculous. It sounds like once an arbitrary number of staff are on leave on any given day, you get rejected? A business that’s decided to run on lean staff numbers is not your problem when it comes to asking for three days of leave.
At least you’re not being refused “because you don’t have children” - apparently leave requests for parents get priority in some places. Nearly got trapped by that in one place I worked. Leave request approved, then suddenly cancelled because someone else had kids and wanted the same date range as leave. At the time, my workplace didn’t know I had a family too. I really enjoyed ripping them a new one over that.
Seriously, a bot probably has a standard time frame for booking leave requests - and your request might have been just outside it - is one month the same as 30 days? - depends on the month. And a ranked list of requests stacked up to fill once it got freedom to grant leave. This list might well be ranked within the organisation, by tenure etc. too. Your request might have been just below the cut off point in the allowed parameters.
Doesn’t make the situation any better or less aggravating.
I don’t think they are actually allowed to do that, it’s not legal to discriminate based on ‘parental status’ and that goes both ways.
My workplace doesn’t do that, but there are different leave arrangements for ‘high demand periods’ over the school holidays. It’s a ballot so that it doesn’t always go to the same people though, not a discriminatory allocation.
At my workplace you can’t book leave more than 18 months in advance. If you have a specific date you want you can miss out 17 months in advance. You can generally get weekend shifts fairly easily because people want to work for the penalty rates, and if you can generally find a day or two available a few months out as long as you don’t want it to be any specific date. If you need a specific day off you often need to arrange to swap a shift with someone else because getting leave is unlikely.
Cough, cough… I see some sick leave in your future.
Guy has only been single for five months. Will abort mission. I knew it was too good to be true.
I don’t think that’s a sign to run for the hills straight away. How long were they together? Do you have any inkling that he’s not over it or you’d just be a rebound? Are you looking for a reason to run?
I just asked and he said it was a year. He has said he wants to travel but doesn’t have anyone to go with, and that he will go on a solo trip when he’s been single for “too long”. I think that’s just me reading into things.
I don’t understand why that’s a red flag
The first thing that came up when I found out was that maybe he’s not happy being alone if he’s dating that quickly after a breakup.
Three weeks is quick. Five months is fine.
It seems that YOU want to be single though. Which is fine. You seem to finding any reason not to date these guys.
Yeah maybe that is the case. I think I’m hypervigilant because I don’t want to get hurt again.
I think that’s the thing with relationships, if you’re not prepared to get hurt you’re not really committing to them. It’s a Catch-22 for sure.
Very true. I know that if I do get hurt, I can deal with it though.
There’s nothing wrong with being careful.
The problem is when that care builds a wall around you.
And that you become comfortable behind it.
My 2 cents.
If you mean rebound… naww
5 months is okay.
Yeah I absolutely do not want to be someone to fill his void because he can’t be happy on his own. I couldn’t have imagined dating five months post-breakup, but everyone is different I guess.
Yea go with your gut.
I might be wrong but if he goes on and on about his ex then probably red flag but until then you never know :)
For a different perspective: I was 2 months single, and still living with my ex, when I met my now-partner. Together since Jan 2019.
It can work out. Unless you got icks for other reasons, I’d suggest at least a third date to see where his head is at.
Thanks for sharing your perspective! And happy seven years :)
Aw thank you! I’m not saying you should give this guy another chance btw, follow your gut instinct 100% with dating!!
Just that it might not mean anything to him/affecting him negatively :)
I trust you know this dude better than us, so ultimately listen to what your heart is telling you 💜
Thanks Spud <3
I had one of those. The Ex was knocked up.
Yeah hmmm :(
At least he is single…
That’s mortifying 💀
that sounds like one of those unfounded stupid things that you can read on the internet
and something I asked my clinical psych, she said it’s meaningless, people get on with life
if you like the guy that’s what counts, make the effort 🙂
Yes the internet is full of stupid timelines. Maybe I just take a long time to get over things. I couldn’t see myself dating someone five months after a breakup.
I told him about PHM and he wants to see it with me. Hopefully not to fill a void.
I think lots of people will enjoy the Rocky Grace dynamic.
What a fucking track
My adhd ass has found the track I’ll listen to on repeat for the next couple of weeks lol
Thanks, might steal it from you
Edit: it’s so smooth!
It’s been giving me endorphin rushes all day lol
This whole album is a great return from these guys.
