YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 23 days agoDiscussion Thread 🚂 Thursday 19 February 2026message-squaremessage-square154linkfedilinkarrow-up110arrow-down10
arrow-up110arrow-down1message-squareDiscussion Thread 🚂 Thursday 19 February 2026YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 23 days agomessage-square154linkfedilink
minus-squareLowExperience2368@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·23 days agoYeah maybe that is the case. I think I’m hypervigilant because I don’t want to get hurt again.
minus-squareSaneMartigan@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·23 days agoI think that’s the thing with relationships, if you’re not prepared to get hurt you’re not really committing to them. It’s a Catch-22 for sure.
minus-squareLowExperience2368@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·23 days agoVery true. I know that if I do get hurt, I can deal with it though.
minus-squareGibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·22 days agoThere’s nothing wrong with being careful. The problem is when that care builds a wall around you. And that you become comfortable behind it. My 2 cents.
minus-squareLowExperience2368@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up2·22 days agoWe just called and spoke on the phone for almost two hours, and it felt like the first date again
minus-squareGibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·22 days agoThat’s a good thing right?
Yeah maybe that is the case. I think I’m hypervigilant because I don’t want to get hurt again.
I think that’s the thing with relationships, if you’re not prepared to get hurt you’re not really committing to them. It’s a Catch-22 for sure.
Very true. I know that if I do get hurt, I can deal with it though.
There’s nothing wrong with being careful.
The problem is when that care builds a wall around you.
And that you become comfortable behind it.
My 2 cents.
We just called and spoke on the phone for almost two hours, and it felt like the first date again
That’s a good thing right?
Yes!
Excellent :)