No; jealousy paints a target on your back. I’d rather people wish well for me and feel that my victories are at least indirectly theirs.

Failing that, I’d want others to be unaware of my existence.

No.

No one should want to be me.

If someone wanted to be me I’d feel nothing but pity and shame.

Never thought about it… I’d say no. But I’d like my friends and family to be proud of me (as well as myself)

No. It makes relations with them difficult.

I remember your handle - IIRC you posted before about having Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wanting people to be jealous of you seems apropos.

I dont know you, but this sounds like narcissistic personality disorder.

nope nope nope. I want to be incredibly anonymous.

Jealous/envious of me? No.

Impressed by me? Yes.

Inspired by me? Double Yes.

Learn a cautionary tale from me? No.

Edit: proofreading better…

An excellent contrapoints video explores this topic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPhrTOg1RUk

Here’s the thing tho. Nobody thinks about you even 1% of what you think they do. It seems like youre saying, “I need validation and want to be a part of the bigger world outside my own” which is totally fair. It’s even healthy, especially when compared to escapism and isolation. If your actions and behavior cause people to have a negative reaction, i.e. jealousy, obsessions, I encourage you to reevaluate what’s within yourself that desires that negative attention. People will think of you far far more if your behavior and actions gives those around you positive reactions. Trade the desire to make them jealous for inspiring them by being a healthy, upstanding rolemodel. Trade “I” statements for “you” questions. People crave and are drawn to those who show an interest in them, just as you admit to in this post. Make the world a better place, not a more anxious place and you’ll find all that attention you desire becomes a far more reasonably attainable goal.

No, quite honestly I do want to live an enviable life AND would be so happy if everyone else did too. I do not want other people to literally want my life, no. I want them to be too happy with their own lives to care about mine.

No, I don’t want to attract thieves and weird fans.

Emphatically no. I cut people concerned with jealousy out of my life. That shit’s toxic.

Hell no. The green monster can friggin kill you

You’re thinking of envy, not jealousy so much: Envy is when you want something someone else has, jealousy is when you don’t want others to have what you have.

I wouldn’t want people to be jealous of me, people act very poorly when they are jealous.