• lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 hours ago

    My thoughts immediately go there on abortion: before birth, I never had the consciousness to experience & want life, so I’m incapable of caring about missing out before that capacity to care could even start. The “loss” is absolutely meaningless to me. Even under the golden rule, abortion seems okay: I wouldn’t care about being aborted. So why are others caring more than I would?

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    6 days ago

    I wasn’t burdened by the curse that is awareness before I was born, and hence now as a result of this awareness, I am scared.

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      We are not cursed to know, we are blessed! We are a fantastic arrangement of atoms that so happen to be arranged into people instead of rocks!

      We are, at the end of the day, infinitely small chunks of the Universe able to see, experince, know, and look back into ourselves!

      I may be hammered, and the world is in an especially frightening place at the moment, but damn is it good to have my atoms arranged into a person instead of a tree

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        I did not choose to be here and I resent that there are expectations put upon me when I wasn’t the reason I am here now.

        I also resent that I was born just to die one day.

        It is also fundamentally horrifying that so many people are born into painful awful experiences and then die, with that being more or less mostly all they knew while alive. And that some people live happy lives on its own doesn’t justify the horror in my eyes at all.

        That said, I wish I could be drunk right now but I’m at work.

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    7 days ago

    This strangely made me feel a better about the concept of death.

    Sometimes I think about it and fall in a few seconds of existential dread. But this kinda…makes it make sense?

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      7 days ago

      If I knew for a fact that I was going to die instantly, without even knowing it happened, I’d be worried about how my loved ones would feel, but okay with it as far as I’m concerned.

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    7 days ago

    The previous billions of years of void was a grandiose buildup to the world’s largest nothing-burger, followed by an eternity of void again.

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    We are genetically configured to survive at all costs. That fear is simply the wiring in your head ensuring you do what you can to survive.

    You can safely compartmentalize it. store it up there with your irrational fear of clowns.

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      That’s not true. It doesn’t explain noble sacrifices. The teacher in the US who is willing to put themselves between their students and the mass shooter is one example.

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        6 days ago

        Yeah, the teacher wasn’t afraid at all. Nope, no genetics causing that teacher to be afraid. /s

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      And there’s nothing that you can do to keep from losing what you have.

      Acceptance is the way to a happy life.

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    Because it was terrifying to be in a state of nonexistence. Thinking about not having what i currently have or even the fact that I’m very much likely not even going to have a state of being where i can even remember the things i had done in my life is truly fucking terrifying to me.

  • flango@lemmy.eco.br
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    7 days ago
    And I am not frightened of dying, 
    any time will do, I don't mind
    Why should I be frightened of dying?
    There's no reason for it, you've gotta go sometime
    
    
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    You can’t “experience” nothingness. Even if you could, you can fear things you’ve experienced before…

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    What I really don’t understand is bringing more people into temporarily existing without the ability to get their consent and calling it a “gift” that now they get to face the lovecraftian horror of future non-existence.

    Pre-birth is not like post death. The arrow of time doesn’t reverse.