I stole @Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone thing! I have no shame about it either 😂

Nice mild day today, love it its the perfect temperature!

Hows everyones sunday? Ily all ❤️❤️

  • Shirow@lemmy.zipEnglish
    3·
    23 days ago

    Yay! Another cutie in my feed :3

    My sunday has confirmed me that I was a piece of meat, a fetish. An old guy followed me with is car (slowed down to match my speed) and wanted me to come in his car and insisted for 2 freaking minutes. Can’t freaking take no for an answer, and had questions like “are you a man or a woman?” Basically told him :“knowing won’t change your life no point in telling.” Then he says “I love trans people”.

    At some point he leaves and then comes back after driving around the block saying he will pay me to come to his home… (Again for like 2 minutes)

    I swear I had to say I remember his licence plate and I had contacts with the police to make him freaking leave (well that technically is untrue but the goal was to make him leave.)

    I wish sometimes I had not a fear of being impulsive. And I wish this would affect me less because it won’t be the last time that will happen.

    • Brooke (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      3·
      23 days ago

      Ewwwww 🤮🤮

      There are right ways and wrong ways to do it. That was the wrong way.

      Im so glad you got out of there safe girl! Please be safe ❤️❤️

          • Shirow@lemmy.zipEnglish
            2·
            23 days ago

            No problem 🫶

            On the principle I’m okay with being a fetish. There are things that excite people and that isn’t wrong by any means.

            But being reduced to one and not taking no for an answer isn’t.

            The problem is that I have the physical strength to fight back, I’m not frail. And yet, I feel powerless sometimes and it’s hard to stand up for oneself. I still did and I’m happy for that. Just it saddens me that I feel less and less safe going out on my own and starting to feel more paranoid about being alone on the street.