It is mildly disappointing that they’re like this, I honestly feel more bad for them and how it’ll affect them. Other than that though I don’t take it personally, I guess since I used to be like them in my beliefs so I know why they’re like that and it doesn’t hurt me. I hope at the very least for their sake they can learn to overcome their bigotry in the future, though I know it’ll likely never happen.

By the way, I did leave shortly after the incident. I just got a Tupperware container, packed it full of food for me to eat when I got home, and I got in my car and left.

Yeah I guess, I don’t really feel that bad though, just kind of sorry for them that they can’t be better people. Like I said it doesn’t surprise me. They think it’s a phase right now. I wonder what they’ll say when I have boobs. Actually I’m kinda excited to see. I got some good comebacks for whatever they might say 😈

That’s good to know. I never thought of doing DIY. I think I’ll try the official way first. I have a therapist I’m talking to right now and I might even be able to get it prescribed through my insurance. But I’ll hold on to this just in case I need it.

Yeah I tried wearing a beanie recently and it was not pleasant. Can’t wear them like I normally like to rn.

Also thanks for the suggestion, I think those will look very cool.

I hope so

I’m working on growing my hair out as well, it’s frustrating how slowly it grows but hopefully it’ll be long soon. Then I plan to dye it too, just like in my profile picture.

Oh, I’ll definitely keep that in mind, gotta make sure to be extra careful when drying off after showering.

That’s reasonable, I did it now because I wanted to, and also because I know the sooner I do it, the sooner the healing process can start.

I say don’t let that stop you, if you want to get your ears pierced you should absolutely do it. Don’t let judgement of stupid people stop you, do what makes you happy, and be who you want.

Yeah I was told I should wear only the stud until it heals completely.

I wish I was on HRT rn :(

Is a Girl <3 | … :(

What are you on about? You ARE a girl <3 🏳️‍⚧️

Good suggestion, I’ll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I’ve got the money for it.

been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

What? You’ve been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don’t want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

That’s good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don’t lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn’t immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it’s something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I’m going for the butch tomboy look, and also it’s nice to be strong.

That makes sense. I might be one of those, I always had a hard time dating women before, but I wasn’t aware I was a lesbian back then (since I was still an Egg).

I guess it’s good that I don’t have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don’t think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I’m on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I’ll be doing it more then so I don’t lose muscle mass as much, that’s one thing I don’t really want to happen when I’m on E.

That’s good to know, I’ll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

What’s a disaster lesbian?

I’ll look into getting some of those and trying to see if it looks good and/or makes me feel better. Thank you for the suggestion.

Oh thank you, I’ll definitely look into getting myself some of those. Will make sure to get a high quality one too. I imagine I’ll be wearing it almost all the time until I can grow my own natural ones.

Any suggestions of where I should look to buy them? Could I just look on Amazon or is there a specific brand or site I should be aware of?