Criticism of the CCP alone is not racist, reporting it as racism is report abuse.

This is it. It’s really easy for cis people to talk about trans issues like they are nothing because they don’t experience them. I should know. I used to be like that before I knew I was a trans girl, and then I eventually came to realize why it hurt so much when my egg broke and I came to be in that position.

Thanks, it wasn’t easy, but I did it eventually 🏳️‍⚧️

Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

If it wasn’t clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying “I’m not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but…” is the equivalent of saying “I’m not racist, I have black friends”. I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

It’s sad. I’m really going to miss this place. I migrated to lemmy.blahaj.zone. I hope I’ll continue to have great experiences there.

I chose lemmy.blahaj.zone since most of the communities I participate in are there and they have been nothing but kind to me. I highly recommend it for other queer people who want to have a peaceful community free of transphobia.

This you?

I think they were talking about people like that, people like you.

lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I’ve participated in their communities and they’ve been nothing but nice to me.

You and me both sister.

I know. I wish Breast Growth didn’t take so long. It’s only been one month since I started HRT but it feels like forever 😭

I’ll begrudgingly put the dress on but I’m not tucking my girldick. I never tuck and I don’t ever want to.

(I’d really rather not do either, I’m a tomboy and I prefer to dress in masc clothing, but I’m more open to wearing fem clothes than I am to tucking.)

It means AMAB. Best way to remember is that trans terminology describes identities we identify with, or direction of transition. So trans women are women, and transfem (transfeminine) means feminine or feminizing.

I never feel bad for correcting them when they self-incorrect themselves. I tend to be more on the aggressive side when someone gets it right the first time but then goes “sorry sir”. One time I went off on a waitress for doing it, and she looked so scared and deeply regretted it, she looked like she was going to cry. After the meal when she brought the check she apologized profusely for misgendering me. So I think being a bitch about being misgendered is sometimes a good thing. When I’ve been nice people are pleasant but end up forgetting. But when I’m a bitch, they remember.

It’s like spritzing a cat’s face with water to get them to stop doing that thing they shouldn’t be doing. Unpleasant but necessary.

I don’t mind. I like all kinds of women, cis, trans, tops, bottoms. I just like women.