• Lhianna@feddit.de
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      6 months ago

      Well, for a lot of neurodivergent people it’s actually a part of who we are, not a condition we have, so even though you might not like it doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Personally I hate people telling me that I have autism and ADHD. I am both those things.

      This article explains it quite well and even though it’s about autistic people it goes for ADHD people as well.

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      6 months ago

      Nobody’s attention deficit / hyperactivity disorder.

      But lots of people are attention deficit / hyperactivity disordered. Or for short, lots of people are ADHD.

      They just used a different D than you expected.

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      6 months ago

      Eh. When people say this they mean

      My son is [of medical status] ADHD.

      It’s like how people say “the car needs washed”. They dont say [to be] anymore. It enrages me, but I’ve been coached that language evolves and we apparently need to respect that.

      I personally think it’s dumb, and people. Should be held to account: your child has a condition, they aren’t a condition.

      More trivially but also annoying: your car has a condition, it isn’t dirty.