I’ve gone my whole life (I’m 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.
Perhaps buy some feminine clothes and wear them, and see how you feel. If you feel good about it, buy more. If that helps, you might like to socially transition. If that also feels good, you could medically transition.