I’ve gone my whole life (I’m 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.
I’m also 35. A few years ago, one of the senior members in a theatre group I belonged to came out. They went from a self employed IT contractor and lighting technician that was quite well respected, to a self employed IT contractor and lighting technician that was quite well respected. In their late 40s.
She has friends in the theatre group, and those friends were very stern with the younger members and less open minded ones, that did make insensitive comments.
Find yourself friends that you feel safe with, is my point I guess. You will be OK.