I’ve gone my whole life (I’m 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.

  • kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
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    7 days ago

    a year ago i found out i am trans. i turned 35 in the meantime. i felt myself for the first time. this connection is now largely buried ind everday shit again, but i never felt so directly what i wanted. if you think you are old now (which is debateble, but i know the brain worms), what would you say in 1, 5, 10 years? use your time to be yourself. explore yourself now. find out what you need and want now rather than next year. :)

    there will be troubles big and small. but it get’s better.