• Mk23simp@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    My lesbian GF played 5D chess by clocking that I was an transfem egg and dating me for years before I realized it for myself. XD

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    3 months ago

    I feel this.

    I think of myself as bi. But every time I thought I was going out with a man, she would eventually hatch into a trans woman.

    Like, I’m happy for you and women are great. But I need to date a man before my bisexual card gets revoked!

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        3 months ago

        Basically this. As a straight(ish) cis person with exclusively queer friends (purely by happenstance of course) that do be how it is for folks who are not bi/pan/Omni is just we’re just not attracted to masculinity/femininity.

        Basically think of whatever is just super not your type, and imagine that feeling but towards specifically masculinity or femininity in general and you have what it’s like

      • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 months ago

        the thing that pisses me off is the frequent definition of “masculine” as somebody who is a hyper-asshole, or at least centered on making a lot of noise for absolutely no reason and generally just being on a micro-rampage all the time.

      • this is why i consider myself bi and lesbian. i might (big might) date a man but not a manly man. basically labels can never fully encompass somebodies sexuality and are just… labels.

      • DarkAri@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 months ago

        Some guys are cute but I’m not attracted to most men. I like cute and pretty guys, androgynous guys as well. Most men put almost no effort into their looks and the ones who do often tend to lean into masculinity which isn’t for me.