I mean, is this normal?
One complained about me to our superior and I was moved to a position elsewhere within the same company. She now sees me and greets me like nothing happened, which strikes me as very odd. 9 months after I was moved she was moved to a different department as well.
The other is a gossip, badmouthed me constantly, lazied around and now, each time she sees me, she greets me effusively, as if we were best friends. WTF?
I simply don’t understand why people (women?) do this.
Has this happened to you before?
Other than ignoring and gray rock them I don’t know what else to do.
But what in the actual heck are they thinking?
Yes, it’s normal, or at least it’s not super unusual. People can be the meanest to your face and then pretend that nothing happened. Is it because they are ashamed of themselves? Because they want to pretend that nothing happened and hope you won’t bring it up? Because they want to maintain happearances in front of others? Are they trying to gaslight you? I don’t know, but it did happen to me and to other people I know.