• HejMedDig@feddit.dk
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    4 days ago

    Men need to step up and talk about their problems. Talk to your friends, go to therapy

    • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world
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      Depression is the worst sort of trap because the disease prevents you from seeking the cure. Men have fewer friends, fewer relationships, weaker social support networks, and a greater social stigma against seeking help.

      Very recently I’ve read at least 2 posts on Lemmy by men who opened up about a nerdy interest and about mental illness. Both faced rather severe rejection from their peers.

      A lot of this rejection of course comes from other men. But it’s not on an individual man to convince their friends not to reject them for opening up.

      So if we take your declaration in that light, what it amounts to saying is that men all need to simultaneously start acting differently than we’ve always acted. But you can say that about a lot of problems in society.

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      “Men need to”

      No.

      Women need to reach out.

      Screw this view that the solution must come from the victims.

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        Women are not necessarily the cause of men’s issues. I don’t see how soldiers with PTSD or untreated mental issues are women’s to solve.

        A lot of issues are self-inflicted, men tend to think problems go away if you ignore them, or even worse, are oblivious to the problems. Especially in relationships. Luckily talking about mental load is becoming more common, and the smarter men, who were oblivious to that issue are stepping up. Relationships take work, also for men. If us men aren’t doing our part, I can easily see why women choose to leave.

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    4 days ago

    @mods

    FYI. This user is a new account spamming poor quality infographics for the last few hours.

    • noumenon@lemmy.worldOP
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      You’re going too far with your labels on me and what I post. I’m not a damn bot! The top mods know me. It seems difficult for people to imagine that I’m just really engaged.