“Treat others the way you want to be treated” is such a core belief of mine. Im in my late 20s now and I’m more and more disheartened by how rare it is to meet people who believe it. Growing up I couldn’t understand. Now that I’m older I still have issues coming to terms with it. People suck and it sucks.

The thing is I don’t think I would mind advertising if it wasn’t shoved down my throat 24/7. The fact I can’t read a webpage without ads blocking everything, I can’t watch TV without more than half of the show’s runtime being ads in and out of segments, I can’t even step outside without seeing the billboard or another 5 ads shoved in my mailbox!

I get 15 some-odd emails a day from different companies trying to get me to buy things. I block them and they pop up with a different email address. I can’t even open my email without ads popping up masquerading as actual messages (Gmail). Don’t get me started on the entire Google app thing.

I can’t open an online map without getting SPONSERED listings. And places I use the app to order from try to advertise me their own food WHILE I’M ORDERING. Panda Express started asking me if I want a subscription to Starz or whatever.

NO. NO. NO.

I’m exhausted. I want to go to a store without being immediately inundated with ads or sellers. “Buy this!” NO. LEAVE ME ALONE.

I’m overwhelmed. I’m overstimulated. I’m done. I don’t care how “quirky” or “flashy” or “hip” your ads are. I refuse to buy anything I see ads for now. It’s too much. Shut up.

TL;DR: we need controls and limits to who, what, where, and how things are advertised. It should be an enforcable crime to have ads louder than a certain decibel for one. But it’s not enforced and fines aren’t more than a drop in the bucket. I doubt I’ll see it in ny lifetime.

!lemmysilver

thank goodness!!!

reading this thread I’m glad I’m a removed in a relationship. my spouse is the best. i got so fucking lucky.

there’s a massive epidemic of loneliness out there. the loss of the free/cheap third spaces, lockdowns, and social media have made a fucking shitstorm. I’m scared for the generations below me just starting to enter the workforce. so many kids just unable to function properly.

i can’t solve it. but I’ve been putting my devices down more and (trying) to get out more. get more sunlight and fresh air, even if i just sit outside and watch the ducks. it’s hard out there. give yourself a break, okay? eat a snack and take a walk.

The prices plus the fact the “physical” games are just download codes (cartridges are not preloaded) really killed the hype for me. I was excited for the new Mario Kart. But $90 for a physical download code after the lackluster, unfinished feeling main titles (Animal Crossing especially) on the Switch has me kind of disgusted. The game “upgrades” also are a bummer. Mario Party Jamboree, while fun, also feels unfinished. A lot of Nintendo’s newer games do, save for Zelda.

I just hope Tomodachii 2 is available on Switch 1. If it’s not I’m just going to have to wait for a rip.

Yup pretty much. It’s… complicated if you really dive into it. I’m saying this as a trans person - there are biological differences between people. In literally everyone, though - it’s not just a sex thing. No two males, females, intersex, or otherwise are alike biologically. Everyone’s biological stats are different. Even twins are different.

These categories exist in science to easily communicate basic ideas based on medical observations. But once you get to the nitty-gritty of a person’s personal medical history it’s really hard to categorize certain things. You can have “true” females with more male hormones than “true” males and vice-versa. You can be born without any sex organs and still develop into an adult.

Bodies are weird. Medical science is very complicated and interesting. We really don’t know what we’re doing still or how a lot of our biology operates. Can you attribute someone’s sports prowess to their hormones? Maybe? I don’t know. I don’t think it matters in the grand scheme of things. I think someone’s determination to do something is a bigger indicator of how well they’ll do in the end.

Nothing’s certain in science. Disproving something is easy. Proving things is a lot harder lol.

Whatever the answer is, it’s going to take years if not decades. I wish I had the answers. I wish I had the power to make things right. I wish I could stop the suffering. All I can do is do what I can. For now, that’s surviving. For now, all I can do is continue to be kind to people and educate them when I can. Help them when I have the ability to.

My fellow disabled person, I see you. A murmur can become a tidal wave with time. We must stick together. We cannot lose hope. We must go on.

I finally made the jump. Hi all.