You’re a wonderful person <3

…I want hot dog 😖

POISITIVITY (totally not) JESSICA

Top 5 Yuri manga… I need it

😭

:hug:

Hey… I’m much younger than you but I’ve gone through something similar… Reaaaally bad ex that never ever followed through and took to blaming me for everything. I never wished harm on her… Never even blamed her for anything until sometime after she broke up with me over my “pushing” (trying to get her to stop being an ass to others and especially myself… In most cases… In my case). I get it. All I can really say… Is that shit sucks girl, and it’ll take some time to feel okay. Be careful not to rebound, but also make sure you have someone you love and trust to be there for you emotionally and get you through it. You can make it through this, I’m sure… You’ve clearly made it through a lot already. <3

You TOTALLY slept with your makeup on, YOU MUST HAVE.

BUT OMG, HOTTTIIIIIIIE

Also omg those posters are great! AND MARIO

Hey! You’re very very pretty, I honestly doubt it has to do anything with your appearance girl. But I get it. It was especially bad for me until I started asking what the main things that trigger certain cis friends who are supportive into a gut reaction are.

For me it was how my hair was to start, along with a 5 o clock shadow I’m cursed with but slowly gets better with laser. Those two things were the biggest things… Next to my struggle to come to a new name.

My deadname is one that, while technically now being used for little girls, is not traditionally used for women and most people do not recognize (well… register may be a better term here) it in their head as such. Changing that has helped lots, even though I changed it to something more feminine-leaning neutral as I was identifying NB at the time.

Nowadays, along with HRT slowly but surely doing its work, the big tell I’m told about is my voice.

Personally I think I also struggle with a box-y frame skeletally… But I’m usually assured on that. Tbh I think there’s a chance I just wanna be cute and don’t know if I’ll ever be able to achieve that because of this…

I hope this helps you at all girl <3

… WHAT?!?!?

😭

We can all agree… With consent. Consentual cute vampire biting each of us. :D

Genuinely the best feeling is when kids see it. Genuinely wonderful…

I get so many compliments on my hair day by day, even when I think its terrible. But when a kid calls my hair “pretty” I’m dying.

I need hugs so baaaad 😭

I would not define people who do this and who you yourself describe as having “too few issues to _” as mentally healthy generally.

Unfortunately, being trans is just that… Being trans. Mean, complacent, or even generally willfully ignorant people are a different thing that can coexist with being trans. Essentially, not all trans people are nice… I unfortunately know a few very unsympathetic transfems I once felt very close to myself…

SUPER pretty!

FRRRRR!!!

Happy HRTversarry Nikki!!!

I hope to one day have a fraction of your absolute gorgeous swag.

“I…I.ii…iits FOR CHESS!”

Suuuuuper proud of you girlie!

Personally hair is where most of my dysphoria comes from. The day I can post in trans_joy WITHOUT covering damn near everything will be the day for me. Crop top and skirt, I am soooo desperate for 😭. I wish I could afford more than just my face…

But fr… I’m proud of you, not a lot of others can do that! No matter how much I’ve told some how much of a difference it can make regardless. You’re cool <3

You are so lucky omfg. I started in May, and its gone from “5 o clock shadow, and its worse of I don’t shave twice per day” to “5 o clock shadow, but its kiiiinda hideable from a high angle or in the dark… Otherwise same parameters”

Matrix FOR SURE, girlie.

Sometimes the blahaj.zone instance is down, but the other comment is lowkey kiiinda exagerating. Been on it daily the last several months, and there’s only been about a week of downtime.

I think it’s linked on the blahaj.zone community here? Someone can correct me if I’m wrong, I’m a bit unavailable for searching that deep rn. But fr! Join us!