The pain of being surprised by suddenly traumatizing information makes me angry, and I even see the issue happen on this site way more often than I would like.

It makes me regret reading comments online because of that pain.

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    10 days ago

    Oh this could easily be me, it’s never on my mind, & if I seem joking or even jovial relaying such information, it’s because I intend to ward people off from leaving replies trying to uhh comfort me? Will try to do better. I should actually try to write some guidelines for what qualifies for a CW instead of just being the fish in the hellsea

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        Yeah, I am skulking around on yet another account. Said I was gonna do a bunch of stuff for people on here & got frazzled with work. I set reminders though so once they forget I’ll just surprise em with what they forgot they asked for.

        Got a tendency to reference things like torture and child abuse as if they are already the topic of the site. Disturbs me on rereading. It’s like how I used to talk to libs to make them understand I view them as complicit in horrible shit. It does not make a lick of sense here. I don’t even remember to mark stuff NSFW. I never made a note to “stop horrifying Lemmy people” but that is easily fixed