Yeah like everyone else here… Venting about how shitty Reddit is. In the last 2 years I’ve been getting 7-day bans every few months for the dumbest things. Seriously ridiculous how relatively unoffensive my comments are. Half of which were bot bans. This last time I decided to use my alt account during a ban and got my main account permanently banned. Submitted an appeal but I don’t have high hopes and even if they lift it, fuck them. Not to mention individual sub bans for simply joining other subs or having a link to my OnlyFans on my profile. I’ve had enough.

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    Welcome. Get ready to realize just how dogshit reddit is (both the userbase and the policies). Try to let go of any maladaptive habits you don’t need anymore (self-censoring, treating all argumenters in bad faith, or anything else you’ve needed to do to survive reddit); this is an opportunity to start anew.

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      I’ve repeatedly gotten away with that (actually, saying that as a terrorist he should be taken out in whatever way makes sense) - but recently I think I got a 7-day ban for it. Moderation is remarkably inconsistent.

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      You should generally avoid showing support towards Europe under TrumpZ administration. Weak Europe will not be able to help US in the future and they all know this. Focus on strengthening China and Russia instead so that they can take on US once Trump has finished robbing and destroying it

      EDIT: I did not this was needed, but /s obviously. Trump is a traitor.

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    Welcome! Don’t hesitate to ask question or community (lemmy’s equivalent for subreddit) recommendation.
    Idk your taste but let my introduce you to !superbowl@lemmy.world nevertheless. Great content both fun and full of learning possibilities and objectively better that its Reddit conterpart. Enjoy!

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    Dude, I feel you. Welcome from a fellow Reddit expat. Right after the Inauguration, Musk had a meeting with Spez, and they permabanned an unknown, but enormous number of people, including me, with a 12 year account, and a million Karma.

    People like you and me were on Reddit when NOBODY knew who they were. We BUILT that site, made it the active conversational free speech site it was supposed to be, until they started getting heavy handed, and then went full MAGA for the second round.

    You’ll find Lemmy is a LOT more forgiving for political speech, although some instances and subs still have some stupid mods.

    There aren’t nearly as many niche forums as Reddit, which is too bad, and there isn’t nearly as much engagement. You won’t be getting thousands, or even hundreds of upvotes. Dozens, maybe. Often none.

    On the other hand, you don’t get anywhere near the amount of nonsense you have to put up with at Reddit. The other day I checked out a post that came up in a search, and had to bail because I couldn’t get through the dozens and dozens of pun posts, totally irrelevant tangents, bots, novelty accounts, etc. I never did reach any actual conversation about the subject. It was so much worse than 18 months ago, and it was already bad then.

    MAGA has obviously discovered the power of Reddit, and destroyed it. They haven’t found Lemmy yet.

    Welcome aboard!

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    My wildest permaban was for a Garyy Tan supporting Cop loving dog shooting another dog, this was detected as threatening violence (or something) a human overturned the obviously ludicrous 7-day ban and then a bot made it permanent.

    Mods have never been great on reddit (the number of True, 2, slightly different spellings) subs are largely a result of legitimately bad moderation.

    But the admins have gotten so much worse recently (not that they’ve ever been great either: Doxxing trans coworkers to alt-right led subs & banning me for forwarding that someone was trying to dox a mod).

    I’m still on their to prevent my local sub going even further right as the rest of Reddit does but I really only engage in that sub now.

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      Yeah r/offmychest is really bad and I went over to the true version.

      Interestingasfuck is terrible and there’s one called intrestingasfuck.

      It used to be power mods that were bad and now it’s a combo of humans and bots

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    Hi, welcome! Sooooo, maybe this is new info. Maybe this you already know. Either way, as a Lemmy newbie, allow me to fill you in on some lingo and details around here.

    So, subreddits are called communities, but it’s the same thing.

    What’s not the same is the core functionality. Lemmy has potentially an infinate amount of servers. I say potentially because you can start your own Lemmy server right now.

    These servers are called “instances”. It’s just a server where you can host your own lemmy account, or your own communities.

    So, you can do whatever you want on your instance. You can tell all your friends to join your instance. I could sign up for an account and be hosted by your instance.

    Now I’m not saying you need to do that, or even that you should do that. I’m just saying you can. It’s possible.

    Now, let’s talk federation.

    Think of each instance as a circle. Now imagine a line connecting two circles. That connection between the two circles means they are “federated”, or connected. You as a user on an instance can interact with all other federated instances. This is why you’ll see topics on lemmy.world and users hosted lemmy.ml.

    Lemmy.world and Lemmy.ml are two different instances, but they are federated. So Lemmy.ml users can interact with Lemmy.world communities/topics/users.

    Your instance is ani.social. I’m not firmiliar with which instances you’re federated with. Clearly federated with Lemmy.World.

    But imagine you found a problematic instance. Like what if you found somethink like nazis.online for an instance. You might want to cut ties with them.

    So now imagine that line between ani.social and nazis.online is cut. You don’t want to talk to nazis, and neither does anyone on your instance. So ani.social defederates from nazis.online, and now the nazis can’t see, nor interact with you, or any communities on your instance.

    However, user@nazis.online can still ineract with Lemmy.ml, and ani.social can still interact with lemmy.ml. So you still may see users on other instances that you’re both federated with. In that case, you can block user@nazis.online.

    And Lemmy.World, and Lemmy.ml are both Lemmy. But you may see users from an instance called piefed. What is piefed? Well it’s a totally different service, with its own instances, with its own communities, run by different people that can still federate with Lemmy and other instances within the fediverse. But how is this possible?

    Well, the fediverse is all services that use something called activitypub. Now, I’m a bit out my own element in knowing the finer details, but the over simplified version is that if a service uses activitypub, it CAN be part of the fediverse. I say “can” because I’ve been told that bluesky does run activitypub, but they choose to limit their own federation to just bsky.app. Meaning there are no other bluesky instances, and no other service is federated with bluesky, even though they totally could federate with mastodon.

    Bluesky is almost a 1:1 carbon copy of pre-musk twitter. Mastodon is more pre-musk twitter inspired, but also fully part of the fediverse.

    Bluesky has limited interaction with mastodon. I’ve never tried it, despite having both a bluesky and mastodon account. I’ve heard you need to bridge the accounts, and it’s a whole thing. So I never bothered. I hear it’s clumsy, and not worth it.

    And there’s a whole bunch of fediverse services.

    Lemmy/piefed are like reddit.

    Peertube is like youtube.

    Loops is like tiktok.

    Pixelfed is like instagram.

    Friendica is like facebook.

    And when I say all this, there’s one giant elephant in the room we haven’t addressed yet. Corporate interests.

    Lets say you’re still on X for some god awful reason. Well, you probably notice that they push their own agenda on you. They make money by getting you to follow the agenda. On the fediverse, there are no owners.

    Like I said earlier, you can run your own instance. If Sony wanted to advertise on Lemmy, it would be damn near impossible. Because they could advertise on Lemmy.World, but only Lemmy.World users would see the ad. Because when you interact with Lemmy.World, you personally are not on Lemmy.World. You’re on Lemmy.World via Ani.social. So you’re actually browsing all this from Ani.Social. You never actually leave there. And if you try to go directly to Lemmy.World, you’ll find you’re not logged in. Because they have no login credentials for you. But if you go back to Ani.Social, you’ll find things just as you left them. Still able to interact with Lemmy.World but still technically browsing Lemmy.World via Ani.Social.

    I know thats a lot to throw at a newbie, but I promise it’s only complicated in the begining. Once you get it, it’s like second nature.

    One last thing, despite being called the “fediverse”, there’s no need to worry. It has nothing to do with Kevin Federline.

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      Bsky uses atProto, not activitypub. From what i got its an awful protocol because they reinvented some things and added cryptography to the point that they are in control of moderation.
      The defederated part is only the place where userdata is stored, everything else like algorithms is in the hands of bsky.
      If one wants to get control of an “instance” they need to make a second competiting bsky basically.

      But Threats has activitypub. I mean like every Masto instance defederated because its very much influencers & stuff.
      Some defederated instantly because its Meta, but after months even the ones who tried to accept them felt spammed with trash

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      Thanks so much for this!! It’s a lot but It all makes a lot of sense. So to see stuff ani.social is not federated with, I’d need to make another account on a different instance?

      That probably explains why I couldn’t post nsfw content. I think ani.social is not federated with the nsfw instances.

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      This… is a lot. How necessarily is it to know all this? Could probably pare it down quite a bit.

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        at the start it could be confusing/scared enough to make people leave.

        But after the first steps its really good to know about how instances and their (de)federation works to find places that fit the user.

        Knowing that the fediverse offers more than “reddit” is neat

        That about that bsky is not part of the fediverse is probably mostly useful for mastodon users. I mean there is wafrn that can support booth but that a bit niche for new users

        maybe its better to link videos like https://tube.sekretaerbaer.net/w/no5VtUKR2DWtxJ4iEeiXPT instead of trying to explain purely with words how it words

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    Recently I got a 7-day reddit ban for encouraging violence - tbh I don’t know exactly what I said because all they would do is give me a link to the deleted comment, which was deleted, but it was in the Ukraine War sub and I’m pretty it was for saying I wished somebody would take out Putin. Banned for enouraging violence, upon the enemy leader in an ongoing war. That’s a mighty high ethical bar you got there, sheriff.

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    I got a 3 day ban for a really innocuous comment. Done by “AI”, of course… I was so annoyed that I didn’t even appeal it and just deleted my account. Should have done it way before, of course. Haven’t been back in 3 weeks. All I said was that Elron Musk hates poor people, and their shit AI said that was threatening harm to someone. Okay.

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      For something run by a greedy little pigboy, that checks out. Can’t have the poors criticizing those defenceless billionaires and harming their reputation, now can we?

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    I lost my 11y account for the audacity of song lyrics that a random mod classed as hate speech. It had a rude word 😑.

    Fuck them. It’s thankfully more authentic here and a lot less bots. I’ve yet to see a haiku.

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    Got my 7yo account banned for not verifying my mail.

    Created a few more accounts with temporary mails, got banned by ‘unauthentic activity’. Then I gave up all and begun to use lemmy. I try to interact on everything to create engagement

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    I got banned - after 13 years - for reporting hate speech.

    Turns out that is “report abuse”.