So I (19F) have this friend (18F) who confessed that she had a crush on me. I turned her down. I also like a guy right now and prefer guys and want a boyfriend and am either bi with a heavy male lean or straight.

Recently, I found out one of her family members found her trying to hang herself so she got down and managed to slip the belt off so she wouldn’t be questioned.

I am so confused. How is this not my fault for rejecting her? I won’t say I will date her given I like men, but she says it’s not my fault and she had a lot going on…

  • Impractical_Island@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    You can be there for her without being the person she wishes you were. Be her friend. Do what a friend would, and she will heal and you won’t have this on your mind.