• Rusty Raven @aussie.zoneM
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      24 days ago

      The worst that can happen is he kidnaps you and keeps you in a dungeon for years as a sex slave. Although that’s also technically a risk you face at any time, it’s not really date specific.

      The worst that is likely to happen is you collect a new bad date story you’ll be able to entertain people with for years.

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          Almost all bad events have good story potential. Thinking about that at the time can actually be a good way of getting through it too - instead of focusing on the bad you can think about ‘how will I tell this story to everyone later’.

          But hopefully it will go well, even if that is the more boring outcome 😁

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      You realise maybe you don’t have chemistry.

      You take the confidence you earned from going through with this, and use it to keep moving forward if you feel ready.