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    1 month ago

    Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman?

    They are on a platform for communicating. She is communicating poorly.

    Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week

    She typed 6 words. It would’ve been less work to disengage by saying “not interested, sorry” - 3 words. It would’ve been far less work to just ghost them.

    Males

    Oh boy, what’s the impression we get when a guy calls women “females” when talking about dating? It’s not good, but it does provide more context to your comments.