Don’t change or get into too much effort to get the woman. Because it will need that same effort to keep her. That will wear you out and she’ll divorce you after years because “you’ve changed”, while you slowly became yourself again.
Sure you can spoil her, but don’t do it the entire time you’re chasing her. She will think you’re “that kind of person” when your spoiling is unsustainable.
My youngest brother’s wife complained to him that he acts different when he’s around his brothers. No, dumb tw*t, he’s known us his whole life, he’s being phony around YOU.
Don’t change or get into too much effort to get the woman. Because it will need that same effort to keep her. That will wear you out and she’ll divorce you after years because “you’ve changed”, while you slowly became yourself again.
Sure you can spoil her, but don’t do it the entire time you’re chasing her. She will think you’re “that kind of person” when your spoiling is unsustainable.
My youngest brother’s wife complained to him that he acts different when he’s around his brothers. No, dumb tw*t, he’s known us his whole life, he’s being phony around YOU.