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  • bananafungus@aussie.zone
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    2 years ago

    Unlucky in love friend is losing their mind again, and I kind of feel bad because I think it’s honestly their fault. I’ve tried to be nice about how to approach the dating scene differently or maybe having some self reflection, but it’s clearly not getting through. They talk to these people for like weeks without a physical date and then completely meltdown when it all breaks down because they thought this person was “the one” in a long line of “the one’s”. I don’t know, I just think they have some issues that they perhaps need to work out or maybe I’m clueless in terms of online dating since I don’t do it, all my dates come from friends referrals or people I’ve met at some group thing.

    • Force_majeure122@aussie.zone
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      2 years ago

      It’s really just a trap to try to get to know people properly for potential romantic relationships online before meeting IRL. Like sure, brief interactions online are nice. But you can’t know shit until IRL meeting imo