• ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    24 days ago

    That’s completely fair and I noticed it myself which is why I brought up fathers. It’s not just mothers it’s fathers, brothers, cousins, friends. But when all the men in your life say “women ain’t shit” and then all the women in your life say “men ain’t shit” more than likely they’re gonna end up siding with they’re gender.

    I hope you understand I’m not trying to argue in bad faith. I’m just trying to let my personal experience be shown and trying to explain that going too far in one direction causes the opposite intended effect

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      24 days ago

      But when all the men in your life say “women ain’t shit” and then all the women in your life say “men ain’t shit” more than likely they’re gonna end up siding with they’re gender.

      Who is predated upon the most by the other group?

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        24 days ago

        Again fair, but my point still stands. Don’t project that onto your kids. Don’t treat your sons like rapists and don’t treat your daughters like whores.

        Teach your kids right from wrong without pitting them against a whole gender. If you bring gender into it you’re part of the problem

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          24 days ago

          Pretending like the genders all face the same issues is being willfully obtuse.