Hi everyone. I’m a Taiwanese American who’s been trying to seriously understand cross-strait politics, history, and why people come to such different conclusions about China, Taiwan, the KMT, and the DPP. I want to be upfront that I’m not well-informed, and I’m posting here in good faith because I genuinely want perspectives I don’t usually hear.
Growing up, my family (especially my mom) has been very distrustful of both China and the KMT. She strongly emphasizes KMT atrocities in Taiwan (228, White Terror, martial law) and believes that those crimes permanently disqualify the KMT from being trusted with power. From her perspective, supporting the KMT feels like ignoring real historical trauma.
At the same time, I’m seeing more people — including Taiwanese and Taiwanese Americans — argue that supporting the KMT today is a pragmatic choice, mainly because of fear of war. The argument I hear is basically:
Even if the KMT committed crimes in the past, the immediate threat of conflict with China matters more, and accommodation reduces the risk of catastrophe (even nuclear escalation).
I honestly don’t know how to weigh these things. If the worst-case scenario is massive civilian death, it feels rational to prioritize avoiding war — but I also understand why people say that appeasement can make things worse in the long run.
Another topic that’s come up is history and propaganda. My mom believes events like the Nanjing Massacre are heavily politicized by the CCP and sometimes goes as far as questioning why Japan has not “fully admitted” to it in the same way Germany did with WWII crimes. I know this is extremely sensitive, and I’m not trying to deny history — I’m trying to understand why different societies remember and frame history so differently, and how that affects trust today.
More broadly, I struggle with political cynicism:
– the idea that all countries spy on their citizens
– that foreign money influences governments everywhere
– that corruption is inevitable
– that ordinary people have very limited power
Sometimes it feels like everyone is partially right and partially wrong, and that most people are just trying to protect their families and live decent lives under imperfect systems.
So my questions (asked sincerely):
• Why do you think supporting the KMT or closer ties with China is reasonable (or not)?
• How should historical crimes factor into present-day political choices?
• How do people in China or pro-China communities view the risk of war versus resistance?
• How should Taiwan navigate survival without becoming a pawn of any major power?
I’m not here to argue or “win.” I’m trying to learn how people who disagree with me reason about these issues. I appreciate thoughtful, respectful responses.
Thank you for reading.
The original was posted on /r/Taiwanese by /u/This-Education4450 at 2025-12-29 07:18:46+00:00.
HWTseng
I think there is a lot of things that you’re unclear of, and those who support KMT is also unclear of.
Firstly is unification and the status quo, who wants the status quo? The best answer is nobody. China wants to take Taiwan, Taiwan wants de jure independence. Therefore Taiwan and China are ultimately working towards different goals that are completely opposite to each other. So appeasing China, siding with KMT that is more “China friendly” is suicidal when China is militarising and modernising their military at a break neck pace. It’s akin to your neighbour telling you “I’m going to kill you and take your house” then, as you watch him to go the local gun store and buy an arsenal of guns, you’re thinking to yourself, maybe if I baked him cookies he won’t kill me.
If you rock up at his door with cookies, sure, it might work you could smother him with kindness and make him change his ways, but this isn’t a hallmark movie, the most likely outcome is he will shoot you dead, eat your cookies and then take your house, if you’re not secretly holding a gun behind you while you present the cookies just in case. You’re an idiot.
Make no mistake, there is no “reduce in risk” of Chinese invasion there is no avoiding war, China is determined to take Taiwan by force or otherwise, there is only delaying their timeline and make sure when they do their calculations, they think the risk to reward ratio is not favourable, and delay the invasion. The only way to increase calculations in our favor is stronger allies, stronger ties with allies, and of course, increasing our own strength. Who is in government doesn’t even factor into it, electing KMT being friendly to China just reduces our resistance and speed up China’s timeline for invasion. Whether our demeanour is friendly or hostile towards them doesn’t matter. Their goal is domination.
Second is Nanking massacre, it’s an atrocity, it’s a great tragedy, and to explain why Taiwanese views it differently compared to Chinese, it’s simple, politically Taiwan needs all the allies it can get, and in the East Asia region, the dominant friendly force is USA, then Japan, and Japan is local. As for China, it’s also simple, they need to continuously fan hatred to garner the attention of their citizens away from their problems. I don’t believe the Chinese genuinely care about the loss of their compatriots during Nanking, because CCP is the biggest murder of Chinese in modern Chinese history, far surpassing the Japanese, and they don’t bat an eyelid about Mao. If you look at how Japanese and US commemorate WW2, compared to Chinese, the lessons are so different. US, Japan, They remember ww2 to remember peace and cooperation. The Chinese remember WW2 to remember hate and suspicion. For a country that supposedly was on the winning side of WW2, they sure act like sore losers
Personally I don’t think KMT’s historical crimes mean anything. I think we should remember them, but with every election the shackles of authoritarian past is broken and weakened, for me it became a non factor after the first election and first time another party was elected to govern Taiwan.
For Japan, they have fundamentally changed their constitution, and we need them as allies, we must always be weary of imperialism, but we have arguably a bigger problem (China) right now, Japanese imperialism is so far down our “worry” list.
As for when Taiwan can stop being pawns, unfortunately until (if) the Chinese threat is gone, we’ll always be at the whims of greater powers
Former_President6071
- It’s reasonable if you believe the KMT has the skills to keep China at bay through its negotiation and appeasements. It’s not reasonable if you believe otherwise and see the KMT mostly caring about their own personal fortune and can be easily bribed.
- Historical crime factors are very important to relationships between countries, but only to the extent of how government use these. Russia has committed tons of atrocities in China and the two countries were close to nuclear fallout in the 1960s. These days they are buddies. Japan was China’s best friend in the 1980s and 1990s when Japanese invested in China during its poorest time & post-Tiananmen isolation. Similarly in Taiwan, we experienced long periods of government-backed anti-Japan education and it’s much more laxed now. We understand what transpired in the past is important but not the only factor in current day-to-day life. Japanese people share more similar values to contemporary Taiwanese people for many reasons.
- You have to ask the Chinese and there’s no good way going about it. It’s a question heavily controlled by their government. You won’t get an objective answer nor a statistically significant picture. Reddit China subs are full of propaganda/self-selected people who can go through the firewall for whatever reason. But most people don’t understand the full gravity of wars until it becomes a reality.
- Define “pawn” first. This is such a weird framing of things. We live in a society that we are all “pawns” in the global economy. The best we can do is build our economy & education. Meanwhile, build strong relationships with people who care about us.
Former_President6071
More broadly, I struggle with political cynicism:
– the idea that all countries spy on their citizens
– that foreign money influences governments everywhere
– that corruption is inevitable
– that ordinary people have very limited power
Not to the same extent as China. Not even close.
Sometimes it feels like everyone is partially right and partially wrong, and that most people are just trying to protect their families and live decent lives under imperfect systems.
I applaud you for being open-minded and willing to accept a certain moral relativism regarding actions. However, the same can be said about many who lived under fascist countries. Yes, all human beings are driven by a certain common set of motivations, including self-preservation. We are not trying to judge the intrinsic moral validity of such a society like China, but rather decode it for our own survival.
Exotic-Jellyfish-429
The CCP is incredibly good at propaganda, just like the USSR. Think about all the most talented artists and creators in the US in Hollywood and New York and all the universities and such. In China, those people can ONLY work for CCP propaganda. The West suffers a similar structural problem in espionage overall. It’s a massive waste of talent for China but they’re absolutely kicking the West’s ass.
The KMT nepotards aren’t just useful idiots for the CCP, they’re also useful idiots for Taiwan…their existence lets the CCP nepotards think Taiwan might actually peacefully “unify”. I’m frankly grateful for that at least.
As for what Taiwan might look like if the CCP took control. Actually there’s another island very similar to Taiwan which rarely gets brought up in discussion (it’s an embarrassment for both the CCP and KMT for different reasons). Look up how the CCP continually mismanages Hainan after taking it over.
Li-Ing-Ju_El-Cid
KMY the Chinese Nationalist Party had lost every negotiation with CCP, thus I don’t think they have any chance to get a great deal. They learn nothing from history.
No-Inside-4705
當和平溝通的努力換來更多的大規模軍演時,你就該明白想靠溝通來阻止戰爭是一種天真可笑的想法。
When efforts for peaceful communication are met with more large-scale military exercises, you should realize that relying on dialogue to prevent war is a naive and laughable notion.
coconut071
It’s not something that can be talked into “having a middle ground” either, imo. One wants to annex the entire country, and the other doesn’t want to be annexed. There literally is no in-between, making talks rather useless.
No-Inside-4705
Exactly
greatgordon
Why do you think supporting the KMT or closer ties with China is reasonable (or not)?
It is, of course, reasonable to have closer tie with neighboring countries, as long as they are not hostile. Which, unfortunately, is not the case between PRC and Taiwan, since they have been openly hostile toward our existence and way of life.
I don’t think this means we should absolutely avoid seeking friendship with them, either at governmental or private sectors. Instead, this make me extremely careful about “the cost” of getting closer with China. In my opinion, if we need to make any compromise in national security or sovereignty in order to get close with China, I would prefer not to. Since it is a price I’m not willing to pay.
The problem of KMT’s approach is excessive appeasement toward PRC officials. They failed to reassure me that they would safeguard our national security and sovereignty to degreea above lip service.
How should historical crimes factor into present-day political choices?
That is their resume. Their history tells us its culture and norms. So it is natural for people to choose or not choose a particular party because of its history.
How do people in China or pro-China communities view the risk of war versus resistance?
I’m apparently NOT pro-China, so I can’t say I know what the hell happened in their brain. I guess there are a few mindsets.
Some people consider themselves as Chinese. So for them, the war against Taiwan is meant to punish those ungrateful people who dare to abadon their ancestry and call themselves Taiwanese. If PRC wins, they also win, since they are also Chinese. And somehow they are very confident about Chinese weaponry’s IFF (only explodes on separatists), and probably have absolute confidence that reeducation camp will not include them.
Some people think it is futile to resist the might of PLA. So why delay the inevitable? Surrendering early is the best.
Some believe avoiding war at all cost, which includes sacrificing sovereignty and the current democratic system for maximal appeasement, is the best strategy. They think that way because they either consider the PLA invincible or they consider themselves as Chinese, and avoiding war is the only way to maintain the “brotherhood” between China and Taiwan.
How should Taiwan navigate survival without becoming a pawn of any major power
It is preferable to not to be controlled by another country. However, if it is the price we must pay to maintain our way of life, then the risk is tolerable. That is to say, the risk of being “a pawn” (whatever that means) has less priority than survival on my problem list.
However, in comparison with Korea and Japan, Taiwan actually has slightly more autonomy.
V8-Turbo-Hybrid
Why do you think supporting the KMT or closer ties with China is reasonable (or not)?
They’re still foolish wanted peace and to sure no war on that.
How should historical crimes factor into present-day political choices?
Despite KMT not a Taiwanese party, there are still members who pro Western world and against China.
How do people in China or pro-China communities view the risk of war versus resistance?
For this question, you should ask Chinese, not Taiwanese.
However, I sure that many they believe and crazy in nationalism. They don’t care the risk of war and even believe they would never go like Russia today.
How should Taiwan navigate survival without becoming a pawn of any major power?
Maybe, it isn’t a great option, but it’s time for Taiwan gotten nuclear weapons.
Taiwanese-ModTeam
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LCamel
對當前中國的看法, 會影響對上述一切問題的看法.
How you see China today shapes how you see all the issues above.
LCamel
而我對中國的看法是: 台灣不抵抗就會變成香港變成新疆.
所以不管國民黨以前做了什麼好事壞事, 現在親共就該被丟進垃圾桶.
日本不管以前做了什麼好事壞事, 能讓台灣免於淪陷就是朋友.
這是生死關頭.
And my view on China is: If Taiwan doesn’t resist, it will become Hong Kong, become Xinjiang.
So regardless of whatever good or bad things the KMT did in the past, now that they’re pro-China, they deserve to be thrown in the trash.
Japan, regardless of whatever good or bad things they did in the past—if they can help keep Taiwan from falling, they are friends.
This is a matter of life and death.
EbbBusiness1369
Not all KMT are pro China tho, recently they got Hau Long Pin who was anti China, lost the election tho
Much_Editor7898
I am not informed. I won’t research and discover on my own. BUT I have my opinions based on ?my conversation with my mom?. I am just going to go share online and ask questions on Reddit.
My goodness. Something is very wrong with people today.
Why not go read and learn instead.
This-Education4450 (OP)
where should I go read and learn instead? I actually got a lot of non biased information, but your point still stands. How can a person in my shoes get unbiased information to do more research on?
yoshekaf
There’s also prejudice and underlying bias in the framing of the questions…
razenwing
It seems like you’ve made up your mind somewhat, that’s not judgemental, just based on some language you used. let me try to reply as neutral as possible.
Why do you think supporting the KMT or closer ties with China is reasonable (or not)?
Let’s skip over all the broken historical promises and the history of the island, and just view KMT at its current platform.
Let’s first understand where they are basing this fantastical idea of negotiated peace from. During ex-President Ma, he signed ECFA and met with Xi in a historic first in Singapore, using framework he claimed existed as the 92 Accord, which stated that one China, but separate claim.
The good from that period is a high level of political stability where no country outside of Gambia dropped recognition of Taiwan.
What the KMT doesn’t remind people is the reality of the situation back then. Ma was able to achieve all these because he suppressed Taiwan’s international presence. While we lost no diplomatic recognition, we failed to secure any meaningful political and economic alliance, which is often more important than bought-for-recognition-countries. We accepted under classified ourselves as regions in many cases just to seek an attendance in international committees.
ECFA produced an immediate burst in GDP, but that burst was short term and non-sustainable. Fact is, elite class grew in wealth during that period, and specifically during this period that the housing market skyrocketed beyond affordability. The deal with China allowed China to gain access and technology that was not present at the time. SMB got obliterated as technology fled and resources consolidated amongst the few. Clearest example, check the market numbers and income figures for the administration’s 8 years, they are virtually stagnant. A lot of issues thst youth of Taiwan complain about today can be traced back to policies then.
All of these show signs to China that Taiwan was willing to capitulate eventually because they interpreted the 92 accord drastically differently. To them, there is no separate interpretation. There is one China, their China, and Taiwan is just waiting to rejoin.
The reality of the situation now is drastically different from his administration. We have over 10 years of data to evaluate Xi’s intention and the actual economic impact from dealing with China. In all cases, they were net negative except for the privileged class. Take example, South Korea. They saw what Ma did, and scholars urged their leader to do the same. Today, Korea is at risk of losing every single advantage they had outside of Samsung because of EUV sanction. They were leaders in ship building, electronics (LED and storage), and fabricators. Now, they lag behind I all of these industries from heavy to high tech because of their policies to bind with China. This is not even a threat analysis issue, is when you bind so heavily with single market with much lower cost, you will lose everything.
politically, we are stronger than ever with the major powers of the world. these include the EU, America’s, and Japan. and these predicated upon trust that we not give China the key to the silicon shield and another monopoly to world’s most precious resource.
KMT likes to tell you the good Ole days. But they don’t tell you the consequence of negating all the trust built up over the years with friends and allies, just to appease a dictator. Meanwhile, they put all faith in the hands of others instead of self to have peace, and they don’t tell you the political risk. They don’t tell you how Xi came into power as a hawk, not moderate, and ever since belts and road initiative failed, Xi needed a victory to prevent party discontent from spreading. Lying down now is signaling to China to have their easy history defining moment, which pragmatically speaking, even if you want to unconditionally surrender, is like the worst time to get a good deal.
Does continuing the current path necessitate a war? Maybe. But i would argue that by raising the cost of a historic victory sought by China, you stand a better chance to prevent wars than otherwise. Cause If China wants a war, he’s going to have a war outside of full unconditional surrender. And even KMT is not crazy enough to give that, so in reality, China wants to achieve that historical impact, and cause for war is present no matter how much KMT can give up for peace.
• How should historical crimes factor into present-day political choices?
You view “historical crimes” from the perspective of a Grand China theorist. We should understand that Taiwan was not subjugated by Japan. It was given willingly by the regime at the time, which was the Qin Dynasty. Japan also didn’t colonize in the ways of European exploitation of Africa. They governed and governed effectively. I am not going to say everyone was a happy camper under Japanese rule, but it certainly wasn’t filled with some mythical anger where everyone is longing for a return to Manchu rule. (which at the time, there’s is no China. China was an entirely new concept came up by early KMT to overthrow the Manchu for thr purpose of uniting as much ethnicities as possible under 1 banner to rebel against the regime.)
Was Nanjing massacre despicable? Sure, but any sane people would recognize that that regime has long collapsed. Any advance civilization would recognize the fault of people in-charge, but not the people themselves. Otherwise, the world will have so much beef to go around, lest not China itself. So much ethnicities either did crime against Han Chinese or were crimes against. If we really want to hold historical crime responsible, we may as well do a giant free for all and see who survived.
• How do people in China or pro-China communities view the risk of war versus resistance?
You know, if you judge from the response of very severed online community within China, they are like 90% pro war. If you think Xi is a great guy for holding that back, think again. Because invading Taiwan is never about some historical important event. I mean, it is, but it’s more important as a political tool, a trump card tucked away by Xi for when his own regime is in trouble. Then he can play that card and maybe displace that malcontent for a little while. (All the more reason not to give that to him)
How should Taiwan navigate survival without becoming a pawn of any major power?
Again with the language, our world is transactional. Would you say Costco is your pawn because it relies on you for profit? Ukraine is not a pawn. Taiwan is not a pawn. We are all doing transaction to keep the sovereignty in 1 piece. Being a pawn is a total submission, like Soviets with their satellite states, where they have 100% control over your livelihood. To see Taiwan as a pawn is having 0 sense of international politics. We take the security guarantee by forging stronger trades (key emphasis on trade, as we get somethign substantial in return like technology and money), not giving tributes. Which we would become a position of if we surrender to China. Then at best, we became a vassal state, or worst, just another front of China’s eventual war with the Pacific Fleet.
So yo your question, there is only 1 side that wants to make Taiwan a pawn, so the decision is really not hard at all.
yoshekaf
I agree - the questions were already framed in a biased manner
This-Education4450 (OP)
Thank you. To be very honest, I did frame it a certain way, but only in the sense that i have only heard my mom’s side. I wanted to not necessarily play devil’s advocate, but kind of “ensure” my mom was not just saying propaganda/ reiterating heavily biased information. I would say, I do support DPP, and ideally, for Taiwan to be independent. I am against KMT and their crimes, I guess I did not want to just “blindly follow what my mom said”. But yes, the questions were posed weirdly for sure.
This-Education4450 (OP)
Thank you. To be very honest, I did frame it a certain way, but only in the sense that i have only heard my mom’s side. I wanted to not necessarily play devil’s advocate, but kind of “ensure” my mom was not just saying propaganda/ reiterating heavily biased information. I would say, I do support DPP, and ideally, for Taiwan to be independent. I am against KMT and their crimes, I guess I did not want to just “blindly follow what my mom said”. But yes, the questions were posed weirdly for sure. I did use chatgpt and didn’t really edit the final text. But thank you for your reply, as I did genuinely feel like I learned more or got more much needed context.
Long-Cabinet6121
Short version: China and CCP magnifies everything that is wrong with human societies in this world. Ergo everything pro China is enemy of the mankind.
Long version: it is unproductive to hold a political party accountable for its historical agenda or atrocities. The Democrat party of 19th century strongly supported slavery and Republicans back then fought against slavery, sort of.
That said if a political party keeps making alliances and choices that align with other genocidal dictator regimes, then that pattern is problematic. KMT was aligned with Nazi Germany after it broke away from Soviet influence, and, 70 years after 228 atrocities, aligned again with CCP that killed tens of millions of Chinese during Great Leap Forward, famine and Cultural Revolution. If you just spent a month in China during COVID lockdown you would know that CCP hasn’t really changed a bit from back then. So it is clear: even if you want to have peace between Taiwan and China, KMT is not a political party with a track of record to entrust your life with.
Maximum-Flat
KMT is just a dictators’ party that lose the war and cling onto USA to survive. The only normal person in the history of the KMT will be the son of Chiang Kai-Shek. Heh, even the national father - Sun Yat-sen is a hypocritical lolicon. I am saying this from the perspective as the distant relatives that being burnt to death by him in Guangzhou since he refuse the idea of united state structure but dream about his big big unite China.
Maximum-Flat
And now, they even start to lick CCP shoes. Fucking pathetic. A dog that ain’t even loyal. Cheat, lie and kill the opposition and still shamelessly claim as the voice of the people.
JoseYang94
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lovebitcoin
Ask yourself honestly: would you be willing to live long-term in China as an ordinary person? If not, then neither would Taiwanese people, nor Chinese people.

