• macisr@sh.itjust.works
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    7 months ago

    Heartbreak, which is part of life, is gonna hit him like a train. He’s gonna maybe hate having felt what he’s feeling right now, but it’s gonna help him mature.

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      Maybe. This is probably the biggest fork in every you g person’s life. Many will learn and grow, but some will descend into a feedback loop of anger and misery and end up worshipping Andrew Tate

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      7 months ago

      Been there, done that. This post really resonates with me because I felt exactly like he is describing. It really fucked me up when this relationship has ended. Now, years later, I’m happier than ever. But recovering from this took me more than a year and was the hardest experience in my life so far.

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    Don’t connect your self worth to a relationship.

    And remember the percentage of living matter in this universe is basically zero, but you are part of it. And not only that, but you belong to the most advanced species we know, in the most advanced time yet. So you are pretty fucking special just by existing. You deserve your own love.

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      I know that’s supposed to be encouraging but it’s a pretty poor showing all the all you’ve got to be happy about.

      I don’t understand this attitude that I’m not allowed to be unhappy because I don’t live in the middle ages or something.

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      And remember the percentage of living matter in this universe is basically zero, but you are part of it. And not only that, but you belong to the most advanced species we know, in the most advanced time yet. So you are pretty fucking special just by existing.

      I don’t think this is going to do anything for people who feel their life sucks

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    7 months ago

    This is clearly a lie because he fell asleep at 5 am and 7 am already left her house.

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    This is the 19yo version of Im14andthisisdeep. Im19andthisis… I can’t quite find the term for what this is, but I feel like these are some pretty basic 19yo emotions.

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    “Happiness is a trap. It can’t last forever. Let’s say you meet the love of your life, well, it’s still gonna end. It’s inevitable, whether by the slow pull of a disease, or the shock of loose footing on a hiking trail, whether it be the corrosion of two personalities that reshape each other until they’re incompatible, or maybe the old stranger in a bar who says the things that need to be said, to that person, that night. The point is, happiness always ends. Best case scenario, think about this. Best case is that you die at the same time. Yikes.”

    - Rick and Morty (of course)

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      I mean literally everything will end, entropy is the ultimate force in the universe. But while that means your happiness is not going to last, it also means your saddness will not last either. This realization that nothing lasts creates sort of an obligation to just live in and experience the present moment.

      • paraphrased from Terrence McKenna
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      This days? I felt like this decades ago at 15, it’s not drama, in my case it was depression

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    Heroin is only warm right after cooking it with a lighter. Also who does heroin anymore? It’s all fentanyl or maybe tranq of you’re lucky

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    I will never know that feeling. Not even my own mother loved me and my dad was colder than a coworker. Maybe I should try heroin…