Except that it’s easily possible to be miserable together and have no contentment within either partner. In fact, that is the majority.

Microsoft does change its API all the time. And then Proton/Wine just changes with it.

Yeah that’s what I’m saying, the place here is a bubble of AI haters. Yet OP somehow is in it, even though they are an AI lover. They have not been fed “their” bubble, but get exposed to a different form of thinking than their own. That’s the opposite of what you said.

No alive people posting in this community pls

It’s when people don’t get taught that shit is within all of us, the good people just give it the reign less often. Just because you have shitty thoughts doesn’t mean you’re shit, what you actually end up doing is what matters.

The definition of small talk is literally establishing common ground in some way. It’s only meant for people you don’t or barely know.

It’s absolutely unnecessary for people you already know deeply.

Actually, you do!

(joking)

how are you? Work has been tough this week

Sounds to me like deep talk. I only talk about how terrible work is with people I trust.

Doesn’t make too much sense though, because OP said they love AI. If what you said was true, then they should have experienced the bubble of AI lovers, which they don’t.

Also, it’s quite evident that Lemmy is not at all “designed to feed ‘engagement’”, yet it is prevalent here anyway. “Scaled” sorts are the default, which specifically promote the less popular opinions.

This has nothing to do with structural differences, OP simply engages with different kind of people irl and online.

I’m almost useless in understanding poetry and it’s insinuations/metaphors. I guess this song is about racism and that racism=bad but other than that, no idea. If you want to tell me something, tell me in a literal/direct way please, otherwise I might not understand :)

Both behaviors are innate. They are not at all exclusive to each other, just different expressions for different situations.

That’s kinda what you said, but with the words “the actual deposition” you imply that we would never be angry and smash things unless we are taught it, which is not true. Anger and smashing things does not need to be taught and is a natural reaction, same as kindness and sharing things is a natural reaction.

since humans have the capacity to rise above animal instinct

Exactly, that’s what I’m saying. The animal instinct comes first, we have to rise above it. The base instinct is to, for example, get extremely angry and smash some faces. You don’t need to learn that; babies get angry and try to smash things.

It requires a lot of control to when you are angry, not to try to destroy the object of your anger if it is right in front of you. That control has to be learned.

It requires a lot of self-awareness and lack of ego to actually get rid of these shitty behaviors. I myself was pretty shitty when I was in my 20s simply because I didn’t know better and humans do have pretty shitty behaviors by default. It requires so much work to get rid of if you’re not initially being brought up that way and have lots of trauma.

I feel you. Today, I go around and see people saying and even believing they are doing good and at the same time doing the shitty things you talk about. They are either not being aware of it or actively ignoring it because it’s too painful for them to admit. And it’s so hard for me because you just never know how someone is until they actually reveal their problematic behaviors. Sometimes it’s fast, like someone admitting to supporting right-wing politics, but more often it’s very circumstantial and you go along thinking someone is good until they’re in that specific kind of situation where they reveal their shitty side.

That’s why personally, I select for awareness. I look for signs that they think about how they think and that they are able to admit they were shitty at some point, but trying to do better. And even that fails sometimes, because there are still people that do these things just to virtue signal without any desire to actually do better.

It’s fucking exhausting. But like you say, you can choose your people and your environment. There are actually good people out there. They’re just soooo hard to find. I have found like 6 right now. And I venture outside of this only veeeeeery rarely. That works for me.

Having to make my bed has a negative effect on my mental health. But yes, that’s why I said to evaluate it individually.

That’s exactly why you should not blindly follow things though. There is literally no advantage to a nicely made bed except that it looks nice. If that is not worth the effort of making the bed, then why would you do it?

Rye/wheat mix sourdough. It’d look like yours if I baked without the phase of very hot temperature at the end, and without the added oat flakes and flour on top.

Ok, let me rephrase, “it’s quite obviously more profitable”

You’re right. It’s not about the code though, it’s about the interaction with the individual submitting the code. It is natural for humans to want to use language that is meant for communication between humans to actually reach humans.

That is just wrong though. There have been plenty of reputable studies with good methodology that do show differences between the sexes at certain tasks.

That does not mean that one or the other is better in general, it means women and men complement each other.

It also doesn’t mean that these innate advantages/disadvantages at certain tasks are significant enough so they are impossible to overcome, there are plenty of men good at communicating or whatever, even though women are generally slightly better at it, and so on.

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