• chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 days ago

    Ex here; they keep a list of problem addresses to avoid sending people to,but even that is generally reevaluated every few years. While I wouldn’t want you to threaten my mom or brother who are still in, being problematic in some way will definitely get you less return visits than trying to be reasonable in discussing anything with them. Having a conversation to them is a exploitable opening.

    • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
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      8 days ago

      I’ve found swearing at them in butchered Icelandic to be rather effective personally. But that also probably works for me because I look feral at best, long haired bearded dude with dead eyes wearing a Czech military jacket probably sets off some folks alarm.